• TLSeeker and Profile picture of M TaylorM Taylor are now friends 8 months ago

  • TLSeeker posted an update 10 months ago

    Does people who cause you so much pain and misery deserved to be forgiven? Are you willing to talk to him like nothing happened?
    He’s acts are still the same although there’s no commitment at all because i am not willing to be in a relationship with him again. My friends call me stupid for still communicating with him but i cant help ’cause i…[Read more]

    • You almost certainly will not be able to move on, no. I know this from experience.

      But I wouldn’t define it as a matter of forgiveness. Forgiveness is a very archaic practice that often fails to really address the issue and many factors involved that seemingly necessitate it.

      Put another way, when someone wrongs you, that is a wound of trust.…[Read more]

    • I wouldn’t say your stupid at all. If anything you are showing courage and strength. Despite what he might have done to you in the past you are doing what you think is right. That is helping someone out that you care about. Doing that regardless of what other people think of what you are doing or if it is the right thing to do.
      Can people be…[Read more]

  • TLSeeker and Profile picture of firewalkerfirewalker are now friends 1 year ago

  • TLSeeker posted a new activity comment 1 year ago

    Yes. I think im starting to walk on the right path now. Although there’ s a lot to work on to, i can say i’m fine now

  • TLSeeker posted a new activity comment 1 year ago

    Thank you. Your words helped me a.lot. Im starting to focus on myself now, on what makes me happy instead of how others perceive me. I learned how to let go of things that ruin my peaceful mind. Although I still have to work hard to bring back the self confidence and the trust to others that i’ve lost, i feel like im better off this way.

  • TLSeeker posted a new activity comment 1 year, 1 month ago

    Hi. Thank you so much for your advice. I really do appreciate you.

  • TLSeeker posted a new activity comment 1 year, 1 month ago

    Hi. I think we have the same experience with regards to our ex. I felt the same way. It’s exhausting really, but sooner you’ll realize you deserve better. The love for that person might never fade but it’s important to love yourself more. You don’t have to push yourself to people who dont know your worth. No one would love you more than anyone…[Read more]

  • TLSeeker posted a new activity comment 1 year, 1 month ago

    I lost it all last month. I thought i could no.longer get up from those miseries. But niw, i think i starting to.build my self again after letting all the things that pull me down go.

    • Oh! I haven’t been receiving notifications for your replies! Glad you’re pulling yourself back together. Be sure to make a strong foundation for yourself. You’ll be unbreakable that way for th challenges ahead. Plus, it’ll help you focus on getting over old pains as you can put your focus and efforts to building and maintaining your new you.

      • Thank you. Your words helped me a.lot. Im starting to focus on myself now, on what makes me happy instead of how others perceive me. I learned how to let go of things that ruin my peaceful mind. Although I still have to work hard to bring back the self confidence and the trust to others that i’ve lost, i feel like im better off this way.

    • Also, if you’d like a more reliable friendly ear, I have better communication platforms. My help is limited but I’ve had success as an advisor for some. I leave that to you, just let me know if you’re interested

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  • TLSeeker and Profile picture of sanket12sanket12 are now friends 1 year, 4 months ago

    • Hi. I think we have the same experience with regards to our ex. I felt the same way. It’s exhausting really, but sooner you’ll realize you deserve better. The love for that person might never fade but it’s important to love yourself more. You don’t have to push yourself to people who dont know your worth. No one would love you more than anyone…[Read more]

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  • TLSeeker posted an update 1 year, 5 months ago

    @infiniteronin Thanks for your advice. I always tend to isolate myself from others because i think nobody cares. I totally have hard time trusting people.

    • Do you have a mission/goal/dream/purpose in life?

    • I lost it all last month. I thought i could no.longer get up from those miseries. But niw, i think i starting to.build my self again after letting all the things that pull me down go.

      • Oh! I haven’t been receiving notifications for your replies! Glad you’re pulling yourself back together. Be sure to make a strong foundation for yourself. You’ll be unbreakable that way for th challenges ahead. Plus, it’ll help you focus on getting over old pains as you can put your focus and efforts to building and maintaining your new you.

        • Thank you. Your words helped me a.lot. Im starting to focus on myself now, on what makes me happy instead of how others perceive me. I learned how to let go of things that ruin my peaceful mind. Although I still have to work hard to bring back the self confidence and the trust to others that i’ve lost, i feel like im better off this way.

      • Also, if you’d like a more reliable friendly ear, I have better communication platforms. My help is limited but I’ve had success as an advisor for some. I leave that to you, just let me know if you’re interested

  • TLSeeker and Profile picture of GreunieGreunie are now friends 1 year, 5 months ago

  • TLSeeker and Profile picture of EzwayzEzwayz are now friends 1 year, 5 months ago

  • TLSeeker posted a new activity comment 1 year, 5 months ago

    Im not seeking for a partner. I actually have one but i cant feel his love but i dont hve any intention to break up with me. Im so depressed with my life

    • If you’re seriously seeking to change your life and its pattern, you’ll need to be accepting that you’ll need to give things up, either bad habits, situations, substances, or types of people you might be addicted to. Remember, you can’t change things by allowing them to remain the same. Sometimes you have to lose to win

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